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fujoshis are bad.
cis women are inherently mlm fetishizers, if you read BL, me a mlm has every right to think that you probably fetishize gay men or romanticize rape in m/m pairings
here are some red flags from a gay man who has been around the bl fandom for a year now.
- women on mangago who only read BL, or read BL more than 50% of the time.
- Women who use BL as a way to escape the male 'gaze' a lot of times they tend to project toxic behaviours in m/m pairings because it's okay since there is no woman in here, so they don't see themselves in the story
- straight women who say they hate yuri/gl
- cis women who wants me to be their gaybies/ask me personal questions ( top or bottom'
- women who use the ' nosebleed yaoi ' meme
- women who complain about a YURI/gl being written by a man, and then in the same breath loves BL/YAOI written by women.
- women who use the 'i'm lgbtq card' as a way to get away with fetishization.
I have a theory for why I like and have liked reading BL for over 12 years.
I do feel insulted, so if you like, see my clarification farther below.
Theory for liking yaoi:
Because there is no biological difference between men as there is between men and women, on the one hand, the hurdles for real intimacy seem far lower in fiction because none...... 1 reply
