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Do you think you should wait to have sex before marriage or do you think you shouldn’t wait? Why?
I am a highly sexual person and i know what i like and i really want to have sex already. But i am not sure if i should just wait until marriage or to just screw it and do it. I guess I’m just scared to give my first time to someone i could possibly breakup with in the future and knowing they took something valuable from me ig. Idk what do you think? Waiting for marriage or not?
There really is no reason to wait until marriage, if you are not highly religious.
Decide depending on the relationship you are in and how it progresses. I understand the fear of someone breaking up with you after, but you dont need to do it on the first date. Also, sex is known to bond people closer, because it releases positive chemicals in the ...... reply
Ultimately what you do is up to you, but since you're asking for opinions here's mine:
I don't think your virginity is valuable, if anything at all I find the notion to be silly. It may feel valuable or precious because its a "first." Much like how we might treat a baby's first words.
But what I find so strange is people's insistence on referr...... reply
If you think that sex something sacred and should be only done after, then dont yet.
As for me, i think its ok to have sex even before marriage, well, i dont have plan to get married though i have plans to have a baby,
And if i were to get married , i think i'll feel more secure cause i will not feel guilty if only get to have sex with the man i'...... reply
If you want to wait for marriage to give it away, then yeah, keep it for the one you love.
But it's not like you're putting dishonor on the universe if you want to do it beforehand...
Its up to you and whoever you are bedding with tbh...
~personally, it doesn't really matter... I'm not saying I'd do it with any and all, but I'm probably not gonna ...... reply
...too late :')
I'd never marry anyone without doing things with them first. What would happen if after a wedding we realised we just don't click? That wouldn't be okay... reply
I'm not religious so no I wouldn't wait till marriage. I don't consider my virginity as something special, and in the future if I happen to meet someone that I want to have sex with then I'll just do it. It is the first time so it is kinda scary, but I'll probably get a partner that I trust enough to do it with, even if we'd never get together. But...... reply
Personally speaking, I think you should wait not for marriage, but for the right person.
You are important and you should cherish yourself! Don't let anyone say otherwise!
Sex before marriage is a totally okay thing, but you shouldn't just go having sex with anyone, it has nothing to do with your virginity, but with the fact that it's a very pre...... 1 reply
Personally I think you should only do it if you really truly want to. If you feel scared than it just means you haven't found the right person making you feel secure. If you think you can only feel that safety of not being abandoned or losing something important do it after marriage. If that person doesn't want to wait, he or she aren't the right p...... reply
Definitely wait for marriage.
I for one am a 21-year-old virgin girl because:
1). I do not want to be a single mother. It is way too hard. Contraceptives don't always work and I refuse to have an abortion because I believe that abortion is murder. I refuse to hurt my baby.
If I do somehow get an unexpected pregnancy then I would put my baby up ...... 5 reply
