this is a serious question

hi, so im kinda new to mangago and i just joined a few months ago. im a straight girl and ive become a really big fan of yaoi so i guess im what you would call a fujoshi?(not sure).
anyway, so ive seen a lot of things on here about bad fujoshis who's thoughts on yaoi are usually bad or fetishizing. i don't really know what im like or if im reading yaoi for the right reasons or if im actually being a "good fujoshi". im really uneducated on the LGBTQ+ community and i just really want to understand what a bad fujoshi and what a good fujoshi so i know for myself to either improve or be better i guess? im not sure if this is a stupid thing to ask but im really serious about it so educate me please.