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I don't how to love someone
Actually my family is forcing me to get married and i'm 24 but tbh i don't want to get married and i'm kinda afraid to marry some stranger, i don't believe in long time relationship, at some point everyone get fade up and many people regret about their marriage. No one in my family understand how i feel and even i tried talking with them but no use. Marriage and Relationship has been a big fear of mine. so i don't how to face them now. i don't how to love someone for long time!!! Tbh i always ask questions to myself like, what is love ?, how can you love someone for long time, what if you regret about it ?
English is not my first language, sorry if there is any mistake...
I'm in the same situation as you, I resonates so badly! I'm 20 years old and I've been battling to stay single since I was 18. I've managed to buy more time by making an ARRAINGED MARRIAGE CONTRACT with my family. I made up the idea on the spot and still cooking up some rules. Basically, I won't thing about marriage for the next 4 years. I can get ...... 1 reply
That is messed up and abusive. You need to get out of that situation. Do you have any friends or other family who can help you? Do you have anyone you can stay with? Can you go to the police? I don't know if that's legal in your country, but you need to get out of there. reply
In my opinion no one has the right to force anyone into marriage, not even your family. You don´t have to answer if you don´t want to, but is it an arraged marriage? If so theres all the more reason not to marry. I think you should try and learn more about yourself and about love or you might really regret it later.
But I´m no expert, I don´t ...... reply
Oh man, it feels like you are from India(cuz i am) you know arranged marriage uhhh. I'm 20 right now but i know when i hit 25 something, my family will expect me to marry someone . I too am confused because on one hand what you said is true, how can you love the same person for your entire life and i too don't know how to commit ,but I think you ca...... 3 reply
If they can't understand you, I'd suggest talking to some other adult family member who understands you and may convince your family.
If not, I'd suggest that you leave that place. Get help from your friends and people you know who might be useful. I know its easier said than done but seriously forcing someone into marriage is abuse. You don't hav...... reply
You probably just haven't met someone that would make you feel contended. You just gotta find more people, go out more... But if you're marrying at the age of 24 then that's sad. Lol Forced Marriages suck as fuck. Hold on there brotha reply
This will be a tough decision but how badly do they want to force you to get married? You are free the moment you choose to be if you don't want to get married don't. reply
Girl, it's pretty normal. U just didn't meet such person. And it ll be sooner or later. But u ll definitely find/meet the person, who u ll fall in love with. But to tell this ur parents is not use. Cuz they ve already decided everything.
So, my advice, accept this marriage, and live with ur husband. But, u ll need a time to figure everything. And d...... reply
First of all you have to learn to love yourself. You are still so young for marriage and kids. No matter what people say follow your instinct. If necessary leave that house and take full responsibility of your own life. You cannot love anyone if you don't love and respect your self.
As for your last question , if love keeps on forever I reply this...... reply
1. I never thought that I would meet someone of legal age on this website
2. If it's forced it's probably not gonna happen.
3. Why are they making you marry?
4. Why are you afraid of it? Are you afraid of getting hurt or are you just afraid of regret's? reply
