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Is it hard to find a good lover?
To make my question clearer, I am curious about if people find partners that really treat them right. By good lover, I just mean that they won't force things or pressure you into anything without your consent or change personalities and so on. I know it differs from person to person, and I won't be able to make a conclusion about how "common" or "numerous" good people are, but I would like to hear about others' experiences with their partners! I would be very grateful if anyone would take the time to answer! As a person who has never had a boyfriend or girlfriend, but afraid of a bad relationship, I just hope that if I start actively pursuing relationships instead of waiting for the right one to fall in my lap, that I won't... well meet a jerk and get hurt.
Hellooo I'm 19 and in my first serious relationship with my boyfriend, we've been dating for about six months. I had a girlfriend for a few months in high school, but we were both going through some things so it was hard for both of us to commit to one another. We mutually decided we were better as friends.
Anyways, I would answer your question wi...... 1 reply