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How to come out
I know that if I were to confess to my parents that I was a lesbian, the reaction would likely not be That Bad. But I'm just afraid it would change the dynamic of my relationship with them forever. I'm 15 right now but I've never even had a girlfriend or even my first kiss. I've rejected plenty of guys and maybe I wouldn't be so romantically hopeless if I just gave it up and went out with them. I have the feeling that my mother wouldn't even BELIEVE me if I told her I was a lesbian unless I was like, dating someone. Not only that, but they'd probably be disappointed as well. She has specifically said things like "I'm so lucky my children aren't getting into the LGBT trend." Which pissed me off so deeply but I couldn't get angry at her without sounding too defensive.
In any case, I just can't come out by my own means even though I know I need to before they find out by some source that isn't me. What do
i am also 15 and a lesbian! im in the exact same situation as you! my advice is, dont listen to anyone who tells you to come out. i am out to lots of people at school including my friends, but the thought of coming out to my parents gives me this feeling of dread and ive personally never even considered coming out to them because that feeling is so...... reply
