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being called a fetishizer
girls/nonbinaries that read yaoi/shonen-ai. i'm sure you've dealt with people calling you fetishizers online. even when i prefer hella innocent, fluffy, wholesome shonen-ai's and never associate BL with real life, I still have to deal with this. for those who read the more raunchy content, i'm sure it's worse. do you agree with this critique, and if not, how do you respond to it?
I bet "fetishize" is the most used word in this website, ngl. it's easy to call someone out as a fetishizer without elaboration here. so fucking easy. never been called one, but I'd deal with it by merely cancelling out that overused response. I'd rather focus on attention-worthy criticisms from users, preferably from mlm people for obvious reasons...... reply
