would you ever come out?

to all the closeted homies out there, would you ever come out? and i mean OUT out, like tell you parents out and be public with your relatioships out. i've always planned to come out when i have a steady income and a roof over my head so that i can have assurance that if ever my family disowns me or kicks me out i already have money to support myself. but lately they've been just so toxic - being both sexist and homophobic, that i began to wonder if i really could come out. anyways, do you gays have any plans in the long run? im of legal age now, realistically i could just leave, but i know that i still need to talk to them. because even if they're so toxic they are still my family and i love them.