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My parents want me to work out
Hey people, i want to vent. I've been really sport depressed for two months now(ye..) and so i wanted to work out again and my parents talked about it with me and i was kinda excited to start but then my dad said 'you need to do sport to attract girls. ' and the idea of doing sport again after he said that turned me off. i'm a gay male and all my life people have told me to work out/do sport not to be healthy but in a toxic masculinity way (just to get girls basically) and idk what to do
I'm sure this isn't what you're looking for, but I'd say men can appreciate a toned body just as much as women do. Working out is also attractive from a personality perspective, since it shows ability to work hard and commit. As for if you should do it, that's down to what makes you happy. Some people do it because they like looking good, some want...... reply
