Relationships are overrated asf.

How do people understand romantic love. I get the love between friends and family. What does it feel like falling in love. How can girls say "I'm in love with this guy" bitch you don't even know him personally how can you love him. How do you all even get crushes. Does getting a crush on someone means you're sexually attracted to them? To those boys who confessed to me that they loved me...what do you love about me. My looks? My fake personality I made for specific people? How can you you like me if you don't even know me?
Seriously after reading all those romance stories, dating random people to experiment, I'm still super confused about how people fall in love. I can't relate to them.
According to me dating someone wastes time and money. Why do I need to buy you stuff? Why are you venting your problems to me? Am i your therapist? Then pay me and I'll listen.