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how to deal with an unrequited love?
back in middle school, a girl transferred into the class next door. i never welcomed her properly, but the first time i saw her smile was when i immediately knew i fell in love.
and i'm a former straight girl. moments after, this straight girl(?) found out they weren't as straight as they thought they were.
we became friends through mutual connections, and sure enough, we've only become closer friends through the years. i already came out to her and our mutual friends as pansexual, but what she still hasn't figured out is the fact that i still have feelings for her. well, hopefully she hasn't.
i'm sure she's as straight as a wooden plank, so i wanted to know how people dealt with unrequited loves who they never had a chance with.
The important thing is not to grow those feelings more than how much they are now. Really. As time passes, you might develop those feelings even more and trust me, you’re gonna get hurt even more. It’s a difficult way if you want to get over unrequited love, especially towards your close friend.
I happened to fall in love twice this way, both...... reply
If you are comfortable (and safe) maybe tell her your feelings? One of my closest friends confessed their feelings for me and although I never felt the same way it helped them move on. Like ending the chapter in a way. Recently they have found a great girlfriend and we had a heart to heart and they thanked me for letting them have closure.
Unrequi...... 2 reply
All my crushes have been unrequited, then again my being lithromantic (aka akoiromantic) and asexual also made me not want to pursue those relationships. Anyway, I did fall hard, though and it was painful and awkward, but eventually in my case, I fell “out of love”.
One of my crushes lingered for years, Took a break from that person, I fell fo...... reply
What ever you do, please, please, PLEASE let them know you have a crush on them before you lose contact with them. I've learnt this from experience. It will eat you alive inside. Even if they reject you, at least you said it and it'll feel so much better then trying to fall asleep (for example) 3 years later when you no longer have contact with the...... 1 reply
