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how to react to ghosting??
I cant believe rhe cursed day has finally come in which i am forced to turn to mangago in such dire-ish straits. also forgive me for this post riddled with typos its 1 am and im miserable.
my friend group consists of seven ppl, including myself - 6 girls and 1 guy, whom has essentially been welcomed in as an honorary girl. of them, only this other girl and i are extroverts, and the rest are introverts.
while i understand they all have their own lives and stuff etc, we're in highschool and there is quite literally no good reason for them to be this busy - barring other extrovert girl who tutors daily. and im aware ibtroverts dont reach out oftrn (sources are othet introverts and myself being a former one heehaa!!), im the only one who initiates half the stuff in this gc, and they never reciprocate even a fraction of my energy, despite me always confronting them abt it.
if i type out a full paragraphs worth of texts , say for an anecdote, ill receive only 2 words and an emoji approx 1 day layer - this is if im lucky!! and ik they read it bc irl ill retell the story under the belief theyve not seen it, yet they claim to have already known it. rheir flimsy excuses are "idk whay to say" and the like, but cmon. have some empathy here, my friend. rhey always seem to eespond instantaneously if someone else texts, so whay the hell?? plus if they need help, theyll ask immediately and just ignore my entire slab of words dieectly above. ugh
and im sure they dont dislike me, so whay on earth should a girl do here? please lend some support bc the only option in my mind is to ghost them, but knowing these idiots thatll only dig my grave deeper and sucessfily choke the dredges of life outta tjis gc amen sned me ur hopes and peayers god bless
Damn
You really did try but I don't think they appreciate it. I am an introvert myself and it is NO excuse for ignoring the messages. In fact I am more comfortable online so I will actively participate in gc. If yk yk
Anyways , I will believe you and think they are good people but if I would you I would have ghosted them longgggg agoooooo
I would...... 2 reply
I find the part on how they respond immediately to someone else to be the worst, tbh. It shows that it's not that they can't respond or have nothing to say - it shows that if it's you sending the message, they choose to not respond. And that's terrible. I hate to ask this, but are you sure they don't have another group chat without you?
And I agre...... 1 reply
Well, I'm that classmate who doesn't read that person's messages in our gc, if I see her profile, my brain will automatically skip her chat.I don't hate her, but her topic doesn't interest me that much, and responding will appear as if I was attempting to respond because no one is responding to her chats. I have nothing to say to her. And I wish sh...... 1 reply
Basically all my friends and me are introverts but our chats aren’t dry (quite the opposite) so I think they are the problem. Do they give you that energy irl?? If that’s the case find new friends lol 1 reply
You can’t just force others to meet with you or text you back. It’s their own free will and if you'll keep confronting them about it, they will just further distance themselves. Honestly it seems like they don’t really care about you. I think you need to make more friends that are similar to you. Don’t be too sad about this, some people jus...... 1 reply
being interested and being introverted are not the same. introverts doesn't mean shying away from friends. introverts can be quite talkative on social media especially with close ones. It's either they hate the act of texting (me lol) or they don't really gaf.
have a heart-to-heart talk with them like "do u really like me as a friend? cuz i notice...... 1 reply
