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Do I need a reality check?
I find myself questioning if I'm being hypocritical. I find alot of people that call themselves fujoshis gross. While I don't have an issue with reading BL or Yaoi and have enjoyed quite a few, truthfully even masturbated to some, I can't help but feel a sense of disgust when I hear some fujoshis categorize reallife men into either bottoms or tops. Moreover, I'm bothered by certain comments on this site, that seem to fetishize gay men in general and oversimplify real life struggles/ Issues. However, I wonder if I have the right to hold these opinions, considering that my list of read Yaois is four times longer than the one for GL. Being a queer woman, does that change anything or am I just a hypocrite?
I feel like you can't really judge those who claim to be fujos when you get off to it. Its like being a golden trash bag among reg trash bags. But I can give grace since yaoi is supposed to be for female consumption. But I still think fujos are freaks bc wdym the only thing you read is gay men porn 1 reply
Honestly you’re really valid.
Meaning of fetishization in English
a sexual interest in an object, a part of the body that is not a sexual organ, or a person as if they are an object: The images are presented tastefully and without fetishization
Honestly the fact that you realize that gay people are real people and it’s weird to do it with re...... reply
what do you mean you masturbated to yaoi???
isn’t that also a form of fetishisation???
am i missing sumn or isn’t that a part of being a fujo??? 2 reply
Tbh, no. I also like women irk and I’m a women myself and here I only read yaoi. Tho I’ve never touched myself to yaoi, I do find it hot, so I don’t think it’s weird for you to be turned on by it, it’s made to be hot and appealing for mainly women. I also find fujoshis gross when they forget that the characters they read about are complet...... reply
