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Do I need a reality check?
I find myself questioning if I'm being hypocritical. I find alot of people that call themselves fujoshis gross. While I don't have an issue with reading BL or Yaoi and have enjoyed quite a few, truthfully even masturbated to some, I can't help but feel a sense of disgust when I hear some fujoshis categorize reallife men into either bottoms or tops. Moreover, I'm bothered by certain comments on this site, that seem to fetishize gay men in general and oversimplify real life struggles/ Issues. However, I wonder if I have the right to hold these opinions, considering that my list of read Yaois is four times longer than the one for GL. Being a queer woman, does that change anything or am I just a hypocrite?
Honestly you’re really valid.
Meaning of fetishization in English
a sexual interest in an object, a part of the body that is not a sexual organ, or a person as if they are an object: The images are presented tastefully and without fetishization
Honestly the fact that you realize that gay people are real people and it’s weird to do it with re...... reply
