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Almost 25 yo virgin
I am embarrassed but also not embarrassed but also can’t tell anyone about it but also don’t want to overhype s*x or expect it to be great the first time but also don’t what to meet weird people obsessed with purity culture but want to find someone who understands how important to me it is but also want to be in love with someone when I do it but also am insecure about my body but also am scared to start dating bc I don’t want men to think a certain way about me if I choose to tell them I’m a virgin and also don’t want to be perceived:/
you'll find someone
chances of u meeting a dude thats also a virgin isn't that crazy or a normal body count dont worry lol
plus it is so much better to have a body count that is low I guarantee you, because when its high you compare who had the bigger dick who was a good kisser who did aftercare the best like expierence like that can ruin a relati...... 1 reply
I don't really see why you posted that here... But who cares if you're 25 and a virgin ? It's fine. I know people older than you that are also virgins (women and men). I don't know about your country/culture, but from where I'm from most people don't seem to care much about this. From what I saw, people only seem to care about their first time beca...... reply
I'm a virgin cause sex is scary and I'm bitchless but in all honesty it doesn't really bother me since virginity is just a social construct that is sometimes used to shame people, especially women.
People should have sex when they want to, there's no age requirement for it (for adult people) reply
Ty guys for this it really means a lot I think I’ve been stressing about it bc it’s normal for my friends or peers to talk about sex and share there experiences here I think talking about makes me anxious and I over think and feel like I’m missing out but don’t want to make decisions I might regret? I appreciate the answers and support reply
Lets be honest there is noting wrong with being a virgin, i am one i don't see myself giving it up anytime soon, society portrays sexual actives as something everyone must do or else they are incles or trouble makers but in all honesty you could meet one person loose your virginity and die happy with that same person, it has been done and is still ...... reply
It's fine to be a virgin, there is nothing to be ashamed about like yeah, you might think that you are behind everyone else in life but you honestly arent. S*x is not an important factor in life, you could live your whole life without s*x perfectly fine. Also if men think of you in a certain way then there must be smth wrong with their heads just b...... reply
Its okay to be inexperienced, there is someone who will be attracted to you unconditionally and a lot of people have more awareness about purity culture as of now. Dont feel afraid to start dating, there is a right timing for everyone and maybe yours is coming around.
I think you should have sex with someone you love and/or are comfortable with se...... reply
it's pretty normal, i am almost 23 and still one. the right time comes eventually. little by little you can work on the things making you insecure, find someone you are friends with first so you can trust them not to perceive you differently if you tell them you are a virgin. you can do it (๑•̀ㅂ•́)و✧ reply
Everyone begins without much experience, and if your partner truly loves you, they won't care whether you're a virgin or not. As an asexual person, I don't see why someone's sexual history should be important. I believe you shouldn't feel pressured, and if your partner can't accept you for who you are, then they're not the right person for you. reply
