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How can I live my life again?
I was in a same sex relationship for over 6 years. I was 17 then and now I'm 24 .. It ended last May but until now I just can't moved on. I feel like my time has stopped. I gave up everything for her sake. Even my friends but now that she is older she just threw me away.
I agree with @Queenbanana Read yaoi until your heart content. I think the yaoi that helped me over my heartbreak was "Totally Captivated.
Ewon Jung said" I know about those nights where for no reason, you can't fall asleep.... when you're left all alone, with nothing but a burning cigarette. I know about the emptiness that you can't escape. it ea...... 1 reply
If it was me I would get a new pet like a cat but that's not a healthy solution....party like hell watch a bunch of anime make a list of 10 crazy things u wanna do, do them all and hope you feel better because you did those things? 1 reply
This is a hard time in your life (i remember when i was heartbroken and it's suffocating). Be patient, there is no shortcut. You never know what the future holds for you c: Start working out (if you don't), it helps physically and emotionally. Generally do something that keeps you mind busy. 2 reply
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There is no difference if is same sex or straight relationship and break ups. I'm bisexual by the way. I was in relationships with both girls and guys. I feel your pain, it will get easier. You will never forget, but with time you start looking at past relationship like on something that thought you a l...... 2 reply
I've never been in a same sex relationship but I have been in relationships and I have been thrown away too. Just tell yourself this is not what you are looking for in a partner. Take some time and think through the relationship, what parts were good, what was bad and what are you looking for in an ideal partner. You're only 24 so you should spend ...... 1 reply
Most adults have gone through something like this at least once in their lifetime... Take your time everybody grieves differently, focus on you, look for the people who or things that mean something to you and who you mean something! I know it's cliché but this moments or forks in the road could be the beginning of great opportunities... 1 reply
I have never really been in this situation. But as someone else wrote I think a change of phase could do you good. For example I'll be moving to Norway in 1 week. I don't know anyone, leaving everyone I know and even a guy I like behind. But I believe I need to just switch it up. Gonna live in a collective to not be totally alone, and hopefully I f...... 1 reply
You're still young. It's not too late to start over. Meet new people, make new friends. Or you can try to get in touch with your old ones. Find and do what makes you happy. Set some personal goals and work to fulfill them. Make this time about you. Love will find its way to you again eventually. 4 reply
Hi
I used to deal with the same thing and what helped me get through it was focusing on myself..
it sounds weird but it actually helps.
Do what you've never done, life is short and you're single so might as well embrace it. I don't want to encourage you to hoe around or smoke weed or whatever but why the fuck not LMAO
Just get your mind off of it ...... 1 reply