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Was It The Right Choice?
After all I've been through with my friend, I decided to cut ties with her.
When I first met her, she was the jolly girl I knew and saw. We kind of became friends, but as time passes you can see her real skin peeling off.
She was your typical rebel kid, and she was dependent on me most of the time. Some of her homeworks, her projects, listening to her family problems, to also make her score higher on real exams (requiring cheating). I've done so much for her, and I can't even expect one thing from her back.
When I confonted her about this matter, she cussed me. "F*** you. I am not dependent on you and ***** (My other friend)." F*** me? She continued to say any cuss words, which is ironic as she was of religion. I tried to ignore her messages until she calmed down. But I was too furious.
The next day I ignored her.
Then months later, we're still ignoring each other. I don't have any more best friend.
Everyday, I regretted my actions. "Should I have understand her position? Should I apologize? Should I this Should I that?"
This thought is eating me alive everyday.
(I am currently writing an apology letter, but I'm scared for the result. I am thinking of not sending it until summer break. I can't face her.)
I think you did the right choice as long as you didn't expect anything from her for all the stuff you've done for her. All you did is just expressing that she is too dependent and she cuss you out, and ignore you. You have the right to be mad too, and for months she still doesnt talk to you? I think its the right choice to unfriend her. However if ...... 1 reply
your friend might be a narcissist if she cant recognize the things you did for her. you dont owe her an apology so DONT ever apologize to her.
i think youre only lonely for now because you dont have a best friend but TRUST ME, youll find friends who know your WORTH. there are so much better people out there. PLEASE do not settle for less.
learn b...... 1 reply
When it comes to any kind of relationship there needs to be balance one person can’t do more than the other or else the one that’s doing the most is going to feel burnt-out and in some cases under appreciated.
With that being said you should also be able to share boundaries and your troubles with your friends and they shouldn’t react the wa...... 1 reply
