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Uke / seme
Is it just me or has the discussion around the usage of those terms COMPLETELY died down?
It has always been widely spread but damn, at least we were talking about it. Now everyone's just using it, no matter what the content is. Like can we please stop calling fluff BL guys uke/seme????? As if you'd even know how they fuck.... and why do you care
Isn't it alright to use uke/seme in the correct setting? Like I'd never use them for real people etc. but in a yaoi mangas where a couple has their assigned roles in bed(bc let's be real switching is almost nonexistent in mangas sadly) then these are the terminologies that were crated to refer to them. Altough it is kinda outdated to use them. Or i...... 1 reply
BL fandom is just filled with porn addicts because why the fuck would any sane person refer to characters who were never even shown having sex as "seme" or "uke". And yall get mad when people think of fujoshis negatively. reply
Im so tired of yaoi fans can yall just die out cause too many have basically transformed into glorified porn addicts that infect every gay content with their sexual name tags and heteronormativity. 5 reply
Those terms give me flashbacks now, especially after the backlash it received after people decided that being a 'fujoshi' — a Japanese term for bl readers/watchers/shippers — is being a disgusting mlm fetishizer. Bl/yaoi got shit popular around quarantine along with anime so people were practically obsessed with japan. Using their terms for eve...... 2 reply
Whats so wrong about it? Its helpful in searching specific dynamics I crave its the same thing as saying Top/Bottom everyone just makes it weird cause its the japanese terms for it?
Its weird to use these terms outside of BL manga but that just helps me into identifying who to avoid 2 reply
Reducing people to their position in bed is sth I've ALWAYS been saying is weird y'all
I hate the term yaoi and yuri too, cuz the meaning for yaoi is a term for pornographic media between two men or more engaging in sexual acts. Can we please refer to it as bl instead? And Yuri almost always refers to the same but for women, lets not bunch a wh...... 2 reply
Omg, there used to be this HUGE debate back in 2020/2021 where people would argue that these terms were bad to use because it was labeling characters by their positions in sex, which I totally agree with. I was guilty of using it back then as well, and rarely use them except the couple of times that they slip out, which I swear I'm trying to fix. N...... 1 reply
