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Hi so my friend invited me to her Quinceanera/ birthday party and my bf doesn’t want me to go and is saying he’ll break up with me if I go and will stop spending money on me and I don’t want to break up with him bc we’ve been together for 2 years now but I feel like he’s being controlling and irrational. He’s saying I’ll just wear pounds of makeup and wear something slutty and get ganged banged by guys…. But I told him I won’t wear anything crazy just a formal dress or something and show him but he doesn’t care. Me and my friend used to be close but we still talk and call every 2 months I’ve known her since the 8th grade. Should I still go to her birthday party?
Look, it’s valid to care and not want to break up with your boyfriend. You’re not wrong to care about him.
But the way he’s talking to you, the things he’s he’s saying to you…
Would YOU ever say anything remotely similar to someone you care about? Can you imagine ever being alright with making HIM feel the way he’s making YOU feel?
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First of all, he’s giving an ultimatum for something that isn’t that serious and when you break it down it’s just him saying “it’s me or your friend”, which such a red flag.
I understand that you guys have been together for two years but if he’s willing to drop all of that because you want to attend to your friend’s birthday then ...... reply
No guy let alone one who you are dating should EVER talk to you this way. I don't know your life so I'm not judging you but girrrl it would not be me. That man would be out of my life so fast he'd break the sound barrier on his way out the door. Go to the party enjoy your life. reply
2 years isn’t that long. Break up with his ass before its 10/20 years and you’ve 2 of his kids. Him saying you'll be gangbanged is crazy comment. Trust me you don't wanna be with people like him and you're plenty young to be stuck with some lowlife like this reply
Girl leave is sorry ass, he's threatening you with stupid shit that won't matter in a few years. Friendships matter as much as any other relationship. ontop of that, both of you are likely still young. He's projecting his insecurities onto you, which should tell you how bad and narcissistic of a person he is. Go to that party girl; what can he even...... reply
Girl leave THAT MAN. U just gave your self so many reasons why you should breakup and if this goes on, he will be more controlling and maybe abusive later on. Come on girl, enjoy life dont stay with that man and go to your friends birthday. That man is shit dont let him do that to you again. Xx reply
Hey, chicks before dicks. Even if you care about him, he shouldn’t threaten you like that. Don’t sacrifice a potential lifelong friendship for a dill weed that only likes the concept of a romantic partner. The fact that he is treating you like this makes me doubt that he cares about you as a person. I know that it’s hard to hear, but it’s d...... reply
girl I ain't even got into a relationship so I'll just say
just break up w that dude cz he lame or sum.
like i think yeah like forcing you to wear makeup whenever you r with him like in front of y'all friends or his friends like girl I could never, break up with him he is a bullsht human being. but forcing you to wear pounds of make up and forcin...... reply
Babygirl respectfully..... That ain't a man
Don't let a kiddy boy control you
If you tried to talk properly and he's still like that then check your choices again
Exiting is always a choice, choose what's better for you reply
