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Does this count as cheating on your lover?
So uh this is abit NSFW and I'll put a TW just incase but I've ranted before to ppl that I felt like a cheater for kissing someone else while I was drunk thinking it was my bf but it's actually my obsessive ex. Thing is... It didn't stop at just kissing but it went on that other level AKA sex. I've seen in tiktoks that "even if I was drunk I wouldn't mistake my lover for someone else" but I genuinely thought it was my bf cus I literally got drunk cus I missed him so badly and my love language is physical touch + quality time. Now my bf forgave me for the kissing part but I'm now thinking of adding more details... I feel guilty. I'm so afraid to tell more details cus tbh I did like the sex but when I learned it was my ex I felt disgusted. Abit conflicted cus i still had feelings for my ex at that time like what if it isn't because I missed my bf what if its because the fact I liked him. I don't rlly remember anything from that night I blacked out drunk and I just woke up feeling the worst person on earth.
Sweetheart, that's rape...
You are the victim, you didn't consent to having sex with them. No matter what situation you put yourself in, you DIDN'T consent to that! I'm sick of these comments bringing up that fact that you drunk and whether or not your ex was there. That's like saying you deserve to get shot at school, just because you decided to g...... reply
Yeah that’s cheating. You legit got it to SEX….okay..kissing can be a mistake, and your bf forgives you that because he truly likes you. Maybe even love at this point, but now you’re saying that you mistook your ex for your bf…okay….got into sex….freak no?! Bro if you feel guilty then at least tell your bf, don’t just be asking us lik...... 4 reply
Holy shit girl I am so sorry that this happened to you. I know that this is scary and overwhelming and confusing. I want you to know this isn’t your fault. You didn’t let down your boyfriend, you legitimately weren’t in the mindset to consent. Both that you were drunk, AND because you literally thought you were consenting to a different perso...... reply
this truly made me reflect on something.. I’ve realized that if my boyfriend had told me this, I wouldn’t have believed him and would have broken up with him. If my girlfriend had told me she did it with her ex (a man) and that it was an honest mistake, I would have believed her and forgiven her. but if she had done it with another woman, I wou...... reply
Tell ur bf. You'd rather him find it out now than later from someone else. However you look at it, ur bf is the victim here. He deserves to know what you did atleast. U fucked up, whether it's a mistake or not. He'll probably forgive u and understand u, but maybe he won't. Either way, he will find it someday and it will break his heart. It's so har...... 2 reply
