childbirth! you shit and cry and sweat and your vagina splits all the way to your anus! or, you have to get your belly sliced open! it's a nightmare! 4 reply
Clumsiness. I used to pretend I was clumsy bc one of my favorite characters was and they were loved by their friends/love interests for it, but now that I am I wish I could go back. The media portrays being clumsy as cute and quirky but irl it sucks, bc you unintentionally break/ruin stuff, you somehow bump onto or and drop everything that surround...... 4 reply
Having a mental illness. They're super romanticized in media and often shown as quirky but shit sucks. It is not hot and sexy to have anxiety, it is miserable. Being traumatized isn't this cool thing to make you stronger, it is debilitating. OCD isn't this quirky need to keep things organized, it is a serious fucking disorder that prevents you fro...... 2 reply
Being mysterious. Idk about you, but I can’t name one person that I’ve known irl who was mysterious AND well-liked. If they were mysterious, it was because they were broody and uncomfortable to be around so people didn’t talk to them. If you don’t talk to people, you don’t make friends, so being mysterious doesn’t really work in real li...... 1 reply
The poor mc meeting the rich hot young chaebol. Tell me how does this mc, who is supposedly struggling to pay rent, has a family member dying at some decrepit hospital, still able to look like she’s been doused with premium collagen? Their teeth - shining shimmering splendid as though they just got veneers. No pores. They walk home, having barely...... 1 reply
Manic pixie dream girl/ not like other girls archetype. They're either very chill and the prollymost genuine person you'll ever meet, or they're a pick me and they fake their interests for whatever reason. Yall it's ok to be a "normie", why tf are ppl trying so hard?
Real talk, I hate how femininity and girly girls are demonized in media sometime...... 1 reply
romance.
this is subjective, but in my experience the love life isn't really all it was made to be. often times it can get really draining, especially depending on the other person.
I grew up with the idea that i was going to date a lot of people and eventually i'll find the perfect person and get married and have kids. Having a partner is so i...... reply
Capitalism
You shouldn’t dedicate your life to a job, especially not at the expense of your mental health, physical health, and family. This also goes for passions, absorbing yourself in your passion and ignoring your responsibilities is also unhealthy.
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