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okay so im aware this isnt the website for this but i currently have no acess to anything so in short i was in the hospital and when they brought me up for a scan my mother took this as the time to go through my phone to which she saw 1. i had a boyfriend and 2. i had been engaging sexually with him and so my insane catholic mother took my phone, told my entire family (she even allowed them to read the messages some of which i talked about my turn ons that ive never told ANYONE about), and acted as if i was insane at her for taking the most perfect guy for me. i got to talk to him through a friends phone but his last message was "im so sorry" and its been as that for weeks. my mom is persistant he is trying to sex traffic me because he looks mexican and we met online. i feel as my life has gone down the drain, where do i go from here?
This is actually nuts and sucks to go through, idk but u rly might wna start making plans to move out and shit cz that’s fucked up, I’m sure ur mom wants what’s best for u but that’s jst insane and rly too much especially since ur 18 reply
I think honestly you are in survival mode time. If you can leave and are an adult do. If you can't better start the x more years mantra. You can't fix racists or narcissistic abusers. There are so many idealistic things people will tell you to do but you have very little power right now. I know you feel like it's a fight for you boyfriend. It's a f...... reply
hey this sounds like a really hard time :( your mom is handling it poorly imo and could have chatted with you about it more privately. It is, however, VERY dangerous to unconditionally trust someone you only know from online, even when your heart is telling you that he's your "perfect guy."
As for what to do next, it sounds like you have friends...... reply
A little racist isn’t she? She does realize Mexico is a very Catholic country, no?
Is your bf even Mexican/Hispanic anyway?
It’s easier said than done (unfortunately), but drop your mom/family as soon as you can (if you can).
There’s genuinely looking out for you (like giving you proper advise and having your back), then there’s trying t...... reply
Oh god, from the experience that i have whenever my dad is crazy angry and threatens me I just completely take his side and act like I was wrong so he trusts me again. If I’m honest shit just gets worse so yeah just lie and eventually you will be forgiven. Still though stay strong and you’ll get through this! 1 reply
