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so i have been dating my bf for 6 years now and we wanna get married. my parents are happy and support our decision whereas his family will only allow it if i give up my identity i.e change my name to match their ethnicity, shift to their locality and totally integrate into their culture. no compromises. since this is a long standing tradition my bf is in favor of it but i am hesitant to do so bc i take great pride in the name my parents have given me, my culture and identity as a whole. what do you guys think i should do? would it really be worth it to give up my own sense of self for the sake of love?
Adding to what the others have been saying, oppression always starts like this.
Now you "just" have to change your name and give up your identity but what's next?
Assuming that this is targeted at women, it's really indicative for how this culture views women. You have to fully subjugate yourself to a man and his family. ESPECIALLY since your boyfr...... reply
