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so i have been dating my bf for 6 years now and we wanna get married. my parents are happy and support our decision whereas his family will only allow it if i give up my identity i.e change my name to match their ethnicity, shift to their locality and totally integrate into their culture. no compromises. since this is a long standing tradition my bf is in favor of it but i am hesitant to do so bc i take great pride in the name my parents have given me, my culture and identity as a whole. what do you guys think i should do? would it really be worth it to give up my own sense of self for the sake of love?
Consider if you want them as in-laws. Many divorces happen because of people OTHER than your partner. And in many cases the in-laws are the reason.
If they are so demanding NOW can you imagine what they'll be like when you're essentially under their control via your husband? If he doesn't even flinch at their suggestions or step up for you, it's ...... reply
