Can we change the meaning of “toxic” bl

I feel like people are misusing the word “toxic” when it comes to bl… you guys like ABUSIVE bl not toxic…when I think of toxic I think of two characters hating each other but wanting to fuck each other at the same time. You guys think toxic as one big muscular guy RAPING and beating on the tiny twink guy. Bitch that’s a fucking criminal…I just want two people to fight each other a little bit and then fuck like hello?? Is that too much to ask for…basically it’s an enemies to lovers type of thing with a little bit of fighting for me. But for you guys…you guys just enjoy “sexy” guys raping other tiny little helpless guys which is…certainly a thing to enjoy… BUT PLEASE STOP MISUSING TOXIC YOU LIKE ABUSIVE CRIMINAL SHIT NOT TOXIC “I hate you but you’re so sexy I wanna fuck you” SHIT. We are not the same…