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I'm sorry what do I do...I don't understand
so i'm a huge bl fan, i read yaoi mangas and i freaking love them but for some reason seeing homosexuals in reality just makes me feel homophobic....i wonder why like, the bl animations, manhwas I like the very much i squeal, or run or kick my pillow whenever there's a cute scene. But If saw something like that in rl i dont have the same feeling...Is something wrong with me(I think so)I'm not hating its just not the same feeling. I'm so concerned about myself...
Because you look at them as if they're fictional. You feel disgusted because they're not all 6ft hot buffed up men. You unconsciously have this standard for them and you want them to look like 10s and to peek into their lives just like in the manhwas you read. My recommendation is to not think about them deeply at all. Don't look at them as 'gay pe...... 1 reply
Hey, thanks to everyone who replied (even the tough ones lol). I get now that I was mixing up fantasy and reality...BL is meant to be cute and dramatic, but real people aren't fictional characters, and I shouldn’t expect them to be. I’ve had time to reflect, and I understand where the discomfort was coming from. I’m working on unlearning that...... 3 reply
i think that should be normal. i dont think seeing random queer people outside being lovely dovey should make you squeal or whatever. it's like straight couple, you see them and nothing else. just people in love with each other. while in bl manga, the people are in pretty/cute art style and you get to see them build up their love story 3 reply
