Is it really misogynistic

another yearly AO3 discourse where people complained how the top ships in AO3 are mostly compromised of m/m ships by.... shaming the writers who are mostly women themselves? i swear to god these type of complaints in itself is just internalized misogyny. reminds me of that one post "stanning men is so mysogynistic but what else do we expect from stupid fucking women". do they not realize some women read m/m because they can't bring themselves to watch or read about women being "fetishized" or "sexualized" for various reasons could be because of trauma or strict religious households that upholds "purity" and "innocence" of women.