How do u recover from it

ur a straight woman surrounded by misogynists growing up and have tried hard to escape it by choosing your friends carefully. In addition to the good friends uv collected over the years, u become friends with a wise and insightful guy from highschool that shares the same views as u especially in gender equality. He's smarter, more eloquent and well-read than u are and u just love the way his mind works. Among all the ppl and friends u know, u believe he's the best example of a man that understands the nuances of men and women. U end up marrying that guy and have a little kid with him. Now, u had a fight recently and are now talking it out, when suddenly, mid-conversation, it dawns on u that u ended up marrying a misogynist anyway.

So what now?