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How do u recover from it
ur a straight woman surrounded by misogynists growing up and have tried hard to escape it by choosing your friends carefully. In addition to the good friends uv collected over the years, u become friends with a wise and insightful guy from highschool that shares the same views as u especially in gender equality. He's smarter, more eloquent and well-read than u are and u just love the way his mind works. Among all the ppl and friends u know, u believe he's the best example of a man that understands the nuances of men and women. U end up marrying that guy and have a little kid with him. Now, u had a fight recently and are now talking it out, when suddenly, mid-conversation, it dawns on u that u ended up marrying a misogynist anyway.
oh my goodness!! other replies here are passive aggressive towards you OP, you are not alone on misjudging a person's character at all.. I am sure you have tried to assess your man before being married to him. It is not easy to vouch someone if they are actively faking their whole character
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