Gatekeeping queerness

im pissed af rn ngl
. I made a post saying i was confused on my sexually bc for the majority of my life ive considered myself lesbian. then i talked about how i recently believed i may be bi instead, started dating a guy, i like yaoi, but found that i wasn't sure if i'd had romantic feelings at all for the guy i dated. Hence, i might still be lesbian but wasn't sure.
and then people went out of their damn way to respond calling me Straight, saying i never had feelings for girls in the first place (cough cough @Angelica still pissed af about that) and completely invalidating my sexuality.
Just bc i did not mention every woman ive dated/had feelings for does not mean i dont like girls in general. I thought that was pretty fucking obvious by the fact that i refered to myself as either lesbian or bi, and even if i didnt its kind of bold to just assume.
Some of you guys need to hop off tiktok, mgg or whatever platform tats making you this braindead and disrespectful and get a life.

learn some basic common sense smh pmo..