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Is losing your v card worth the hype?
I’ve seen plenty of people on social media saying that losing their v card isn’t worth the hype. Is it really something that we should look forward to?? On TikTok especially, there are women who say how it wasn’t enjoyable for them. Or how sex is only about pleasing men. And as a 21 year old virgin, I’m very curious on whether I should be concerned about this. So for all my V card losers. Was your experience worth it?? Do you wish you could take it back?? (Please I need answers, I feel so behind in life. I haven’t even had my first actual kiss yet) And perspectives from women would be highly appreciated !!
I’m going to assume you’re also female, I didn’t lose my V card till I was 25 but almost 26 (I’m 27 now). My now ex was my first/last sexual encounter and can’t say it rocked my world fr. But here’s what I find important at this point, it’s probably going to be hard to have a “great experience” if you don’t understand how your o...... reply
No it’s not this magical experience manga and the movies LIED LMAO that’s the tea
It is different if you find someone you connect and trust with which is the important part, it adds a deeper layer of intimacy and connection if that’s something you crave, my first time or any of my times with men did not have that, it was completely soulless ...... 1 reply
losing your virginity isn’t magical, and it doesn’t feel very good at first, but once you get more used to sex it feels much better.
everyone’s experience is different, i lost mine when i was 18 with my bf of over a year, and we did a lot of prep work leading up to it (he’s pretty big lol). the most important part of the first time is mak...... 1 reply
Honestly it will always depend on who you do it with. I've seen all the other answers and they are all correct about finding the right person for you, although its hard to tell who's for you. You never know how they'll be under the sheets but I would still say its an enjoyable experience if you find that right person you love and care for (and a li...... reply
I was 14 when I lost it to a 21yo so no... Also lowkey sex is overrated. It doesn't feel THAT good, specially when it's not with the right person. I wish I hadn't sex so fast because "everyone else" was. Don't give in to that propaganda, it's just shit. I don't like sex, but that's just for me. Not saying it's always bad, this is just me because I ...... 3 reply
Depends on who your doing it with
If your doing it with your lover the sure it worth it. It might actually be the best moment of your life if that was the case
But if you’re losing it just for the sake of it. That’s just pointless. Since once the excitement is over you just probably feel just as empty.
So do it at your own pace. If you fe...... reply
Pls do not rush into having sex because everyone else is. I lost my V card when I was 21 and I had not even had my first kiss up until that point. I also felt like I was falling behind and even pathetic at times. It was a form of peer pressure I was putting on myself. My bf was a great guy but I still wish I waited until I wanted to do it, not beca...... reply
