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PLEASE IS IT JS ME?
has anyone else not experienced any form of imitate relations at all? I'm 18, going to uni and yet I haven't even held hands or even held a romantic conversation with anyone, and hearing my friends talk about it just makes me feel like I'm missing out on life in general.
Dw. The closest thing I've ever experienced to romance was kissing a girl on a Dora trampoline when I was 8, and she died last month. So I guess you could say my love life is pretty dead. Heh.
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nah it's totally normal. i'm about to be 21 and i haven't even talked to another person romantically let alone held hands etc. i'm ace and most likely aromantic as well which is why it doesn't really bother me much tho.
no point in comparing yourself to others though you shouldn't force things like this reply
i was never in a relationship until i started uni so you'll be fine.
many ppl start dating in first year so you'll be okay, as long as you make the effort to talk and meet ppl. can't expect to have a s/o if you never leave ur dorm. reply
Don’t worry, I’m in the same boat! College freshmen, never been in a relationship, haven’t had my first kiss, no romantic experience at all. I often feel kinda left out too, but it’s not abnormal. Sure, it’s less common, but we’ll get there eventually. Getting situated in college as a freshman is enough of a hassle, and your life is onl...... reply
I’ve only ever gotten groomed or been w a piece of shit so it’s fr not all sunshine and rainbows if I could go back in time and never date anyone I would, so girl pls dw abt it and enjoy ur uni life reply
Trust me, I feel the same way too and I’m 21… I’ve had relationships with people but it never went far from holding hands or having romantic conversations. I feel immensely behind because all my friends/family have experienced more than me. But we’re all on our different paths in this life. So don’t beat yourself up about this. Especially...... reply
I was like that too, just recently I had a bf but things didnt end well and I never went beyond kissing, Im just too paranoid and traumatized with men in general.
And I spend insane amounts of time reading romance stories but IRL i’m as romantic as a rock reply
Nopeee. Just focus on academic. Stop being paranoid cause the people around you are different from you. It's not a big deal. Everyone has different focus in life and it's absolutely fine to take your time. It's cool to see actually a teenager who is hyoerfocused on career and life. Good job. Don't forget to take walks though ෆ╹ .̮...... reply
I haven't graduated yet (1 more year to go) but the last and first time someone had a crush on me was 6th grade and I didnt like them back, I dont want any forced relationships either where im getting together with someone for the sake of being in a relationship.
Ive 'kissed' before but that was really just pecks with a childhood friend when we wer...... reply
