Trust me, I feel the same way too and I’m 21… I’ve had relationships with people but it never went far from holding hands or having romantic conversations. I feel immensely behind because all my friends/family have experienced more than me. But we’re all on our different paths in this life. So don’t beat yourself up about this. Especially...... reply
I’m talking to this dude who has a cum wall… I know you’re probably taken aback right now but stick with me. Basically he would cum on his hands, lay there and throw in on the wall… he told me that he’s been doing it since junior high school. And that his mom would sometimes ask if the cum was coffee because it turned fucking yellow…..#－.－) “a genocide on my wall” is what he referred to it as. So tell me, am I talking to a fucking psychopath??? cause this dude has to actually be insane. I was soo repulsed I almost puked in my mouth. The funny thing is I was suppose to be at his house for thanksgiving. But I don’t think any dude would wanna invite a girl they’re interested in over with dried yellow cum on their wall…… I don’t even know what to do anymore. Also he’s 25 …. So this ain’t an immature teenager I’m dealing with. Which I think makes this even more insane. Anyways, wtf should I do… I’ve NEVER been in this situation before… ╥﹏╥
I’m currently seeing this 25 year old and I’m 21. Mind you we both just turned this age in the beginning of the year. Somehow my family thinks he’s too old for me which doesn’t make sense. I mean I can understand to a point because 21 and 25 year olds at different stages of life. But we are both pretty mature so I don’t see the issue. Sometimes he does talk about settling down, so that’s the only thing I’m worried about. But I know that I wouldn’t do anything just because he wants to. Like I understand that my career, goals and life comes first before anything. Do you guys think he’s too old for me?? What are some of your experiences with age gap relationships?
I’ve seen plenty of people on social media saying that losing their v card isn’t worth the hype. Is it really something that we should look forward to?? On TikTok especially, there are women who say how it wasn’t enjoyable for them. Or how sex is only about pleasing men. And as a 21 year old virgin, I’m very curious on whether I should be concerned about this. So for all my V card losers. Was your experience worth it?? Do you wish you could take it back?? (Please I need answers, I feel so behind in life. I haven’t even had my first actual kiss yet) And perspectives from women would be highly appreciated !!
