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Ur partner having a close friend of opposite gender
Wht do yall think ab that? Ive seen a whole lotta people saying that having a best friend of opposite gender is a "red flag" bc guys n girls cannot be friends
so, if ure lesbian, like does ur gf have to cut off all her best friends because theyre girls? Same goes for gay guys.. like I only see straight ppl making a big deal out of this. And ppl saying their partners MUST cut off all friendships w their friends js cuz theyre girls or guys are lowkey giving me insecure middle school relationship vibess.. sorry
like, if my guy friend told me we couldnt talk anymore cuz of his gf, its fine w me and ill completely respect it and cut him off but if my partner had a girl friend, i genuinely would not mind at all n i wouldnt cut off my guy friends js bc i got a boyfriend but Obviously, I'll have respectable boundaries between us like im not gonna be touchy, or flirty and be some weirdo yk
If I was dating a male, I wouldn't let him have female friends because males can't be trusted + he wouldn't be hanging out with her if he wasn't at least somewhat interested. Like y'all have to understand, if he's hanging out with a woman, he would hit if she let him. That's just the facts of life. That's how men are. And that's one of the millions...... 3 reply
Ive been in this situation before, not as the lover but as the friend of the lover. Its mostly how the friend acts, even if you knew that person all your life, you have to be aware of your surroundings and actually pay attention to both people. If your friends lover looks uncomfortable with the things you're doing.. Dont do it, it's simple, even if...... 1 reply
If you're paranoid, then you need to communicate with each other, goodness me. Its not a red flag if your lover is friends with the opposite gender, since they are just friends. You just cannot control someone just because you're insecure. You're the red flag if you control your partner's life. like what's the point of being together if you can't c...... 1 reply
I'll be truthful here, i do not trust men with maintaining entirely platonic relationships with women, because I've been on the recieving end of the affections of my "male friends" way too often, and many of them were not single. So idk I'll always be a little sceptical of my man's female friends. (Not putting the blame on the friends here, but men...... reply
We have a conversation with our boy friend like this. It’s ok to have a close friend of the opposite sex, if your relationship is good, you’ll both trust each other that they don’t cheat and feel to be jealous of the other person. Cutting someone who’s been with you longer just because your partner doesn’t trust you or feel insecure about...... reply
been on both sides… i’m nonbinary lesbian and my guy friend broke off a friendship w me when he got a gf even tho his gf KNEW that 1) i’m not a girl 2) not interested in guys 3) my guy friend was also a family friend, we’re practically cousins and i’m lowkey pissed bc i lost my minecraft buddy it was kinda weird but i didn’t want to in...... reply
Tldr, just why? Like its very ok to just have opposite sex as a friend? Like? Huh why your jealous of that especially if ur special someone clearly tell u that they really like you reply
Yeah why not?I think it would be hypocritical, controlling and insecure of someone to not let someone be friends because they’re the opposite gender.
If youre a lesbian and you don’t let your girlfriend have other close female friends isn’t that hypocritical and dumb, I feel like the same logic applies here , just don’t be weird about it a...... reply
