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Ur partner having a close friend of opposite gender
Wht do yall think ab that? Ive seen a whole lotta people saying that having a best friend of opposite gender is a "red flag" bc guys n girls cannot be friends
so, if ure lesbian, like does ur gf have to cut off all her best friends because theyre girls? Same goes for gay guys.. like I only see straight ppl making a big deal out of this. And ppl saying their partners MUST cut off all friendships w their friends js cuz theyre girls or guys are lowkey giving me insecure middle school relationship vibess.. sorry
like, if my guy friend told me we couldnt talk anymore cuz of his gf, its fine w me and ill completely respect it and cut him off but if my partner had a girl friend, i genuinely would not mind at all n i wouldnt cut off my guy friends js bc i got a boyfriend but Obviously, I'll have respectable boundaries between us like im not gonna be touchy, or flirty and be some weirdo yk
Ive been in this situation before, not as the lover but as the friend of the lover. Its mostly how the friend acts, even if you knew that person all your life, you have to be aware of your surroundings and actually pay attention to both people. If your friends lover looks uncomfortable with the things you're doing.. Dont do it, it's simple, even if...... 1 reply
