mangago etiquette...?

hihi. very silly topic and question but i....am tired of being a lurker. i don't know much about the social/forums on here but i've been using this website for one trillion years, it feels like. what's it like being active? what is it like having a space to talk about bl/manga with fellow fujoshi?? ^^; and maybe what can i do to be better at it.... ╥﹏╥