How did yall discover yaoi?

Guys tell me about your first encounter with yaoi

My first encounter with yaoi was an year ago... my friend introduced me to "the summer hikaru died" manga and i loved it. It was my first bl and I wanted more so i did more research on bl mangas out of curiosity and came across yaoi... oh well curiosity killed the cat cz point to be noted here is that I was a innocent af 14 year old and didn't even know what smut meant T-T that's how innocent i was but anyways my innocence didnt last long and my first smut ended up being neither soft nor straight between a man and a woman but HARDCORE GAY MEN FUCKING EACH OTHER. I remember being speechless af lmaoo but now I'm the most addicted person you'll find to yaoi lol