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Lavender marriage
I see a lot of cishet people saying they want lavender marriage as in marrying a gay person. I hate it so much. Just bcs you hate men, etc. No, this is not about platonic marriage. If it is, good for them but... It's like they're undermining the struggles of queer people and implying that gay people can't find love or happiness on their own. The LGBTQ+ community has fought hard for their rights and recognition and it's hurtful to see people taking that for granted?!?!?! I live in a conservative country. Even so i don't want to marry out of convenience. I'll fought for my love right.
What they actually dream of this?? Bro just stay friends that's so weird. You don't need some marriage contract or what?? Like leave the gays alone I don't see the benefits in any of this even if platonic cus maybe that's my opinion due to divorce being illegal here and I don't want to accidentally commit adultery when I later fall for someone jus...... 1 reply
lavender marriages were historically for protection (they are still a survival mechanism in queer-hostile countries) but people do enter them voluntarily and not out of necessity but for platonic love and legal benefits. they're economically convenient, relieve social pressure off of both parties, and some people even choose to have children togeth...... reply
I SAW THESE KIND OF COMMENTS TOO!! man, why do people treat lavender marriage like it’s something cute or quirky ️?? like… it literally exists because queer people are pressured by society and have to hide who they are just to stay safe reply
They treat the lavender marriage as an aesthetic instead of 2 ppl struggling to express who they really are to others. It is all fun and games for them until they had to be in one of those marriages. Those kinds of ppl need to get the f out of internet and get some common sense. reply
