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What's your opinion on filial piety
I'm aware it isn't called filial piety all over the world so let's put it this way and say what's your opinion on obligatory "respect and honour" to your parents? As someone who's parents constantly use that as an excuse for everything, even trying to force me into a career as a "gift" to them so they can gain respect , I despise it cause its so hard to refuse, if I do I get the disowned treatment , and I wonder what are other people's notions on it Ofcourse it isn't a necessarily bad thing in most cases but just didn't play out well in mine
I think in my country where it's not really a thing it was really surprising when i first learned about the concept. There's probably a stronger sense of individualism. I think here we also have something similar maybe in a sense of wanting to make your parents proud and, while it feels nice knowing they could brag about you to other people, i thin...... reply
They brought you into this messed up world without your consent, you owe them nothing...is what I truly feel but if we still hope for a somewhat decent relationship with them, you'd need to plead and plead, do other kind things for them and very slowly condition them to accept you choices. Worked for me once. 1 reply
As a person with a deadbeat dad and a very hurtful mother I just don't fucking care about what they think my country is heavy on filial piety but I genuinely js don't gaf, they're expecting me to become a doctor but nah bro I'd rather be unemployed roaming the streets. They wanna love me if I give them honor, so what's the fuckin point if that's a...... reply
