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Am I being dramatic?
Alright, guys! So, I saw my bf was DMing a girl (his single coworker) dick memes (like 20 back and forth about AI dick jokes and phallic fruit cutting and shit. literally all dick related). he had the conversation muted. they talked friendly and stuff but nothing obscene. He did say shit like "I saw that and thought about sending it to you." A DICK MEME. Me, I'm like: Why are you thinking about your female coworker when a dick meme pops up?
He tried to say she was "just a tomboy" and she literally never saw her like that (AGAIN--HE MUTED THE CONVO). I have had similar problems with him in the past and he acts like a clueless little boy every time.
Context to complicate the matter, I kissed my female best friend when i was drunk around a year into my bf and Is relationship, so after that, I kinda felt like I should let everything slide.
What do we think? Should I leave a 6 year relationship over this? Or, like, propose a threesome? I am not kidding I have no money and two cat children. How will I leave this apartment guys? ╥﹏╥
thx the many lovely people of mangago. #toolazytocreatearedditaccount #toohighforthis
...most 'tomboys' dgaf bout dick. Not giving a serious reply, bc you're not serious either.
You already cheated.
You're letting your man flirt in front of you.
You're wanting to suggest a THREESOME cause you don't want to be homeless w cats
If you want your future with him, fight for it :r
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I wanted to offer an update to anyone curious. I did break up with him. We remain roommates. Confetti. (I am very sad.) Thanks for all the messages! 1 reply
Don't trust it because it very quickly turns into sexual jokes towards each other that can be interpreted as flirting and lowkey is flirting. If he has her muted he already feels guilty. Hes testing your bottom line and if you let this slide he'll keep pushing it and pushing it. I say start finding a place to live post breakup, (ALWAYS be ready to ...... reply
Honestly gurl there's no excuse for what u did in the past but what he's doing rn seems to be mirco cheating honestly they maybe friends who r able to joke around like this but this is just wrong so why don't u talk about and tell him that u don't like this joke between the two of them uk especially it being a dick joke and all so talk it out and D...... reply
NO THREESOME!!! Now that point's out the way IMO I do send obscene jokes to my friends in relationships like a couple sex jokes but nothing between me and them but like.... ""I saw that and thought about sending it to you."" ?????? I'd never say that to anyone over a dick joke??? If you're tired of it and wanna leave him but you're broke take his s...... reply
