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for context, i recently broke things off with my situationship cause he would do stuff that just didn’t sit right with me. now as much as i don’t want to glaze him, my friends keep making jokes and comments about how i shouldn’t have done that cause he’s gonna find someone “better” than me etcetc. they didn’t say that explicitly but that’s what they were implying lol so i did a bit of thinking and i was like ykw maybe we can work something out, hes not perfect and so was i. so last night, when i was planning on talking to him at the party, he was already WITH another girl so naturally i confronted him cause it hasn’t even been a week since i decided to cut him off and we got into a whole ass argument that my friends had to break off. it was really embarrassing so i asked my friends if we could go home and fortunately they agreed. anyway i guess where im going with this is, should i even bother patching things up with him still? cause i lowkey don’t want to but my friends have been insisting that i do it.
Nah girl F your friends, it's a waste of time to bother about a guy like that and your friends really aren't helping with the way they keep insisting and forcing you when you guys literally had a whole ass argument and he was with another girl, you mentioned some of the things he does doesn't sit right with you so that's it. If it doesn't feel righ...... 1 reply
Honestly, you dodged a bullet. If things already didn’t sit right with you before, that feeling usually exists for a reason. The fact that he was already with someone else in less than a week also says a lot. Don’t let your friends pressure you into going back to something you already knew wasn’t right 1 reply
why are ur friends so pushy off the fact that you should patch up? did he help them in their past life or smth??
well besides that, You already did ur best and confronted him so fuck that guy babe, you gonna find someone much better than him, i'm telling you. 1 reply
bro he js some guy lmao. tell ur friends that if they think that he can find better then they go date him XD. glazing men in big 2026 don't sit right with me. 1 reply
the update nobody asked for: im free!!! the guy texted me last night ‘apologizing’ but i blocked him lol. also the conversation with my friends didn’t go super well, so i ended up dropping two of them cause i conveniently found out through another friend (there’s seven of us in the group) that both of the girls i dropped have been crushing ...... reply
No??? Girl If he found a replacement fast he's not gonna be loyal to you or good even. Your friends saying that INSTEAD of supporting your decision is shitty. Don't go back just cause some of your friends think he's worth it, they aren't aware of who this man is actually. They just know from based your stories and bias can be created if you always ...... reply
It was your decision to break things off with him so stand firm. Your friends aren't the ones who experienced how he was, you did. Naturally, what they think of him should not matter on this topic. Also it shouldn't matter whether he starts things with another girl or nah because that is his choice and nobody else's, now that you guys aren't even a...... 1 reply
Honestly I wouldn't even bother trying to patch things up with him or try to win him back if he can move on that fast from you he never really cared about you from the start. Also if he was already doing things that you didn't like or were a red flag I wouldn't even consider it he's obviously a shitty person just based on what you said and you can'...... 1 reply
