felt so invalidated T_T

so i was texting in my friend group how i was rewatching link click and i ship lu guang and cheng xiaoshi so hard(i said in a joking manner even though they're personally one of my ultimate ships). i also said “please don't make me watch naruto i will never shut up about naruto and sasuke” and one of my friends texted “watch heated rivalry don't bring this into naruto” and i was so confused like how can they NOT ship narusasu like?! even if they don't SHIP ship it, they should've atleast seen something going on between them right?! and then my other friend texted in the group that “BL, GL kuch nahi bhaii, i hate...cheee”(BL, GL is nothing bro, i hate..... eww) and she was like “why do girls even like BLs?” T_T. one of them said “i support LGBTQ, okay? but i don't understand the concept” T_T. and like, one of them said that i should go outside and do some yoga (in context of me saying that i would probably ship narusasu). and i felt like, so bad. mainly bc i have told them that i'm bi. and it was so wierd, reading these texts. like, so if in future i get a gf would they think this? T_T. i don't know. i don't hate them they're genuinely good friends but like, i felt so bad. i texted “i support straight relationships but i don't understand the concept” (as a reply) XD. no one has texted anything back after this though lol.
ps. i am lowkey happy i didn't say i ship satosugu I would have NOT been able to take any criticism, they're my #1 ship EVER. they're so canon in my head i genuinely start tweaking when people outright dismiss any potential more-than-friends discussion of them.