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Is this a serieus problem turn on's in yaoi
So lately I'm getting a little bit worried about my turn on's. Since a young age I have been into yaoi even before I was interested in sexual stuff like sex,masturbation and I have never masturbated reading yaoi or thinking about it. I'm bisexual and I don't have the problem with woman but when it comes to men I'm interested in stuff that happens in yaoi quite often or in yaoi manga's I have read a lot of. So I like it when someone pushes me against the wall or on the bed like what happens in a lot in yaoi. I also find it a turn on when men are very dominant and pushy but what worries me the most is that I actually like yandere kinda guys.
When they are obsessed with me and very stalk ish. I know this is dangerous because guys in (real life) like that are capable of doing some scary stuff. Right now I'm in a situation where something that happens in yaoi sometimes is happening in real life and a normal person would not get involved but it low-key turns me on being in that situation. I'm pretty sure later in life I'm going to regret this but my curiosity is getting a hold of me.
Does anyone expierences the same or has experienced it? Do you maybe have advice for me?
I mean I think it's fine as long as you feel safe and that you are not in the way of harm. If your comfortable with it them I say that its fine but if you feel even only a bit uncomfortable you should immediately do something to stop it. 3 reply
The details you gave are too vague for a solid answer, but... fiction should stay fiction. Being turned on isn't worth potentially risking your life. If you think you'll regret it, you really shouldn't do it lol. If you decide to, make sure to let people around you know, share your location with people you trust, meet them in a public area, and pre...... reply
I liked the roleplay idea already suggested.
I like certain things from yaoi but I am already in a long term relationship and my partner is more than willing to be my seme haha.. or even my uke if that's how I want to go sometimes.
I used to be attracted to "bad boy" types.. and my current partner may look like a bad boy to others at first glance...... reply
I'm not sure I fully understand, but are you saying someone is stalking you? If so, I don't think it's a good idea to do nothing. Like I get you say it's a turn on, but a complete stranger? That's too dangerous. Just try and stay safe, don't do anything stupid (I mean that in the nicest was possible) 1 reply
Although I can't relate to you at all, I'll try to answer as honestly as possible. It's not bad that you're into these things. However, you shouldn't look for a partner with these traits because in many cases, it can lead to a toxic or abusive relationship. Instead, you should look into something more along the lines of consentual roleplay. Make su...... reply
For the turn-ons in yaoi, do your thing. You like what you like. The yandere trope is a trope for a reason. I'm not into yandere guys, but what turns you on in fiction is your business.
I want to answer you about the real life situation, but the situation you give is too vague for me. Is someone stalk you in real life? Is someone obsessed with yo...... 1 reply
