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being a loser (at love)
i love reading romance mangas and fanfics, watching romcom movies and shows, and listening to love songs like i consume every media about love imaginable yet i can never actually relate to them because unfortunately nobody's inlove with me and i'm not inlove with anyone at all and it's so embarrassing because normally when people listen to a love song with the most down bad lyrics ever they think of someone but no all i think about is how the song is really good i feel like such a loser
i probably just haven't found someone to be with i mean like i've tried but we never really hit it off like yknow the feeling of being an outsider in ur own relationship that's kinda how i felt with my past ones i've just never really felt connected with anyone before
I’m kinda in the same boat honestly. I love reading romance stories and I eat it up anytime. But when it comes to romantic relationships, I’ve never been interested in starting one or even flirt with anyone. Hell, I haven’t been romantically interested in ANYONE in ages (since like middle school?). No crushes, no nothing. And Ive been around ...... reply
You're not alone, but consuming something related to love doesn't mean you should be in love too or you have to relate to them, that part is what I feel the beauty of it. Everybody is a READER and a LISTENER of someone else's stories and songs, all of us are also writing and composing our OWN. Don't overthink it, as you said you don't feel connecte...... reply
I may just be wrong but I feel like you might be asexual or aromantic like your experiences feel similar to an asexual friend of mine, she felt out of place when everyone were talking about their romance, she felt like it was fine just observing love and romance just not experiencing it herself so yeah just give it a thought, I'm not telling you to...... reply
