Concerning Romance in action manhwa.

(reposting here cuz I didn't get answers before)
Guys, is something wrong with me? Why the hell am I so anti straight romance in action manga?
And the thing is, I'm straight myself so I don't know why I struggle so much with continuing a storyline (specifically action) that has full blown romance (I'm not talking about subtle romantic gestures, I'm talking kissing, fuqin, dedicating chapters on end to romantic development and shit like that)
Like I get so fuqin icked out and immediately drop any stories with full blown romance, no matter how good the story is, and that's a problem for me.
I've thought about it a lot and I guess I can at least give myself a soft landing by saying, no...I don't expect an author to change their story for my sake, yes I am aware head canons are head canons and not CANON at all, no I don't throw a whole fit of rage when a confirmation of main straight romance in an action story I'm reading drops.
I just find it very difficult to go ahead with the story when stuff get steamy between MC and some girl, but if I really love the manga, I'll do my best to skip out anything that even has to do with the couple.
Don't get me wrong though, I don't hate ALL straight romance in action, I just prefer it being super subtle, also, I can handle side characters being all lovey dovey but when it comes to the MC, I'm just like...nah (It's also ridiculous cuz I fuq with romance in action when the MC is a girl, but not when it's a guy...talk about bias)
I properly acknowledged this as an issue (with myself) when I found myself actually icking at one of my favourite manhwa, all because MC (apparently) got kissed by love interest in most recent chapter (it's actually Eleceed I'm talking about so yeah) and now I almost feel like discontinuing the manhwa for something like that (even tho it's literally cause for celebration)...I think I need therapy guys.
Honestly, I just wish there could be subtlety of romantic stuff with MCs in the course of an action storyline ; (But I mean, we don't always get what we wish for right?; I mean it's okay if they get together in the end tho)
Anyway tell me if I'm the only one in this boat please...
# Team I don't want to see any fuqin slobbery romance shit between MC and some lovely lady in my action mangahwaua...