"i wanna date someone"→"but im scared of intimacy and don't really think i can ever have sex"→"but i also want a close connection"→"but i cant really fully ever trust men and idk if i will be ever able to be strong enough to date a woman openly im scared of judgement→"but i think dating isn't worth the hassle"→"maybe im js on aro/ace spec...... 1 reply