Can’t touch myself whenever I like someone

Okay this might be tmi but whatevs its mangago tf. So does anyone else can’t masturbate when theyre romantically involved with someone? Like i’d wanna go off using a material but then i’d think of that person and get turned off bc it feels disrespectful to think of them during my intimate situations?! Like no shit i cant get off bc i’d think of them and fuck that feels wrong. HELP