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is this unreasonable or nah
i just graduated high school and my parents want to charge me for living in the house and for eating at home. i don’t have a job so i don’t have income. i feel like this is super unreasonable but they won’t change their mind. should i just stay with my friend instead of living here?
Your parents are going overboard and are being completely unreasonable. They are treating parent-child bond as transactional, as if the entire world out there doesn't expect monetary transaction for your existence. Bringing that capitalist mentality home, ugh. You are their kid, you aren't their home improvement investment. Unless there are extenua...... reply
Is it worth it? I understand having to pay for your own groceries maybe paying a portion of rent but are they gonna free up some rules for you Are you able to do what you please?
They should at least give you a 6 month buffer to save some money So even if you're planning to leave at least save a couple thousand But rent prices are looking pretty t...... reply
Mooch off parents, not friends. How are your parents gonna collect from you? Tell them to start a tab :) When you do get a job whenever, tell them you will slowly pay them back....don't say how much, but later, maybe a buck a week? And when ya get a job, then go live with a roommate/friend and pay your fair share for your new life. What your p...... reply
I never got this concept. I'm sure it's something cultural but how can a person just out of school has to quickly grow up and get money to contribute? 2 reply
It’s unreasonable to ask for income from someone who makes no money. Hardly ethical to pressure you to pay for home cooked meals much less rent. If you wanna move with a friend that doesn’t sound insane to me reply
it's so weird and sad how common this is. they shouldn't be charging you to live in the home you were ALREADY living in. Especially since you don't work. It's definitely unreasonable, and you should stay with your friend since they aren't changing their minds. sending my love and hope to you bro :p reply
Cultural differences goes crazy because in my country parents be selling their houses to send their kids to college and then pay for their wedding too ....my uncle lives in the same city and that I am living in currently for college and he's been so insufferable about me living in the dorms, "what's the point of me living if my own niece has to eat...... reply