Some tips: (I am an older lesbian and have only strapped people with vaginas)
-depending on your bed height. Partner on bed, you standing on floor. I find the bed is hard to get grip on and thus no control. Or do it on the floor.
-i hold the base of the strap in my fist to make sure i dont go too deep too fast. Sometime im holding it for most of t...... 3 reply
Different positions and hip movement is how you go about it, and he should be trying to match your pace too
>.> that and setting mood. Good luck and uh be safe!!! Injuries take a bit to heal from personal experience >.> reply