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Am I a a-hole for this?
Okay, so boom. I reach out to this super cute guy in my grade. I graduated a full year ahead of my class, so I'm going to college in the fall in a different town. I made this super clear to him, and that I was just wanting to talk/be friends. But I lowkee kinda put myself in the thought process that things could work out with him. He apparently confessed to me on a call when I fell asleep, and that honestly ticked me off when he told me over messages. Then, not even 4 days later, he makes a joke calling me a slut and some other things, but I play it off as a joke because we're about to go on a date the following day. The date went well, but he just kept on giving me the ick. I made it very clear to him that I don't like being called terms that put me down as a woman, and he laughed it off. So I ghosted him. He's been messaging me every fucking hour for the last 4-5 days. I haven't been on any of my social apps because I'm too much of a wimp to block him on everything, because that just means he could bother me with alt accounts if he were desperate enough. (I've been stalked by 2 guys, and would prefer not to have it happen again.) There's more to the story, but I won't tell unless someone wants to be nosy
i don't think so but you should just talk to him once
girlie listen if a person gives you the bad ick or ur instincts tell you to leave them, then leave them. you don't have to love someone if it comes at the cost of loving yourself.
but just talk to them once cause in the future u're gonna regret not knowing the full story and u'll be thinking of...... reply